Sixteen years ago when I was
nine years old, there was a marvelous spring
season in our desert area. In all these years I have never
forgotten that spring. The reason being is that an event occurred that reinforced
my parents’ guidance and taught me to develop more patience.
My father decided to take us on a trip in
order to spend a wonderful time at a beautiful desert location. The prospect of
this trip made my brothers and I very happy. In early morning my father called
us to get in the car. While my father was driving, he received a call from my
cousin. He asked my father to take him with us to the desert. My father agreed
and then drove toward my cousin's home so we could take him with us. The trip
was amazing and the weather was fabulous. But the road was scary because it had
one lane and it was packed with people. After three hours of driving on that
horrible road, we reached the dessert. The place had many
mountains and they encircled us. Though most of these mountains were similar,
there was one that stood out. Its appearance was special, resembling a pyramid.
The older generation knows this mountain well and they appreciate its beauty.
My cousin remarked: "Wow, it is a
wonderful place, let's play a football there!" We then asked my father to
take us to that mountain but he refused.
However we did not accept no, and secretly
proceeded to go to the mountain. My cousin further suggested taking two of my
brothers with us on this trip. I told my little brother "do not tell
anyone about our trip especially father." We then left him in the tent until
we came back from the mountain. After that, we walked toward the mountain. There
were four of us and we walked for a long time until we reached the mountain’s base. Its shape was as
spectacular up close as far away. We then devoted ourselves to playing on the
mountain and then climbing to its top. It was a very joyful time. Afterwards we
organized ourselves to return early because my father had no idea about our trip
to the mountain, and we didn’t want to encounter any wild animals.
My cousin was the oldest one. We had
confidence in him because he knew the place very well. Unfortunately, he had
forgotten the right way toward our tent.
I said "let's go through this way" but my cousin said "I
am better than you in finding our way, and I know this place better" Then,
I said "ok, let's go". We walked back following my cousin's directions.
After walking for four hours we still hadn’t found our camp. The situation was
made worse because we didn't find any one who could help us to find our tent or
give us a ride. It was also noon and the desert sun was very hot. In addition,
we had finished all our water. We were lost and we didn't have cell phones to
call for a help. This escapade was becoming a horrible situation with
potentially bad consequences in terms of our very survival. My brothers were
crying while I was trying to figure out a solution for our problem. To make
matters worse, my father was also looking everywhere for us but he couldn’t
find us. He then called my uncles to get help. They proceeded to search for us
everywhere while we continued to look for help. I happened to see a car a distance away and
then I told my brothers to scream to get the car’s attention. Finally the
driver of the car noticed our sounds and he headed to us. We then felt very
happy for we were going to be saved. However when the car arrived, I was shocked
to discover that the driver was my father. At that moment, I got a weird feeling,
which was a mix between the happiness and fear. My father was angry and very
disappointed in us. He wanted to punch all of us as a punishment but one of my uncles
intervened.
Sounds like you had quite the adventure Mohammed! Growing up I had significantly older cousins who used to cajole me into doing things that often got me in trouble and gave them a good laugh. Those experience taught me how to: A) relate to people older than my peers, B) stay sharp at all times in case I needed to find a way out, C) Be persistent, as I kept trying to be part of their group even though I was 5-10 years younger than the rest of them.
ReplyDeleteThanks Rahul for your comment, I think every one had some good and bad events. All of these events should have impact on his life either in positive or negative way. However, we should get the positive things and learn as you have learned from your experience with your cousins to relate to people older than you, stay sharp at all times and be solid.
DeleteScary! You could have almost been on "I Shouldn't Be Alive" or something like that. Have you ever seen those shows because your story sounds very similar to many of the episodes? Where was this mountain/desert place? It sounds very majestic. And I agree with Rahul, getting lost like that will really teach you to pay better attention to your surroundings in the future. I bet your dad was secretly so happy that he found you.
ReplyDeleteThanks Eileen for you comment. Unfortunately, I have never seen those shows, may be because I’m not the type of person to watch T.V. shows. This desert is close to my city and it is a huge area, which has many mountains and wild animals. Most of the people prefer to go there just in the spring due to the nice weather and trees there but in the summer it becomes very awful area.
DeleteWow! I am sure you are never going to forget that day! I can only imagine your dad looking frantically for you or you guys searching for your camp in desperation. Having said that, I guess growing up is all about learning from our mistakes/adventures and most of us experience tough times.What really matters is how one comes out of them and your story most certainly taught you an important lesson.
ReplyDeleteThanks Swagata, I have never forgot this story because at that situation, I felt it was the last moment in my life especially when all of my brothers and my cousin said " we are going to die " because we had no water and we had nothing to do to save ourselves from wild animals there. I got very important lessons from that experience. After that event, I have never been in that place.
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